Army Sends Infant to Protective Services, Mom to Afghanistan

by: Dahr Jamail  |  Inter Press Service

Army Sends Infant to Protective Services, Mom to Afghanistan
U.S. Army Specialist Alexis Hutchinson holding her son, Kamani. (Photo: Courtesy of Alexis Hutchinson)

Ventura, California - US Army Specialist Alexis Hutchinson, a single mother, is being threatened with a military court-martial if she does not agree to deploy to Afghanistan, despite having been told she would be granted extra time to find someone to care for her 11-month-old son while she is overseas.

Hutchinson, of Oakland, California, is currently being confined at Hunter Army Airfield near Savannah, Georgia, after being arrested. Her son was placed into a county foster care system.

Hutchinson has been threatened with a court martial if she does not agree to deploy to Afghanistan on Sunday, Nov. 15. She has been attempting to find someone to take care of her child, Kamani, while she is deployed overseas, but to no avail.

According to the family care plan of the U.S. Army, Hutchinson was allowed to fly to California and leave her son with her mother, Angelique Hughes of Oakland.

However, after a week of caring for the child, Hughes realised she was unable to care for Kamani along with her other duties of caring for a daughter with special needs, her ailing mother, and an ailing sister.

In late October, Angelique Hughes told Hutchinson and her commander that she would be unable to care for Kamani after all. The Army then gave Hutchinson an extension of time to allow her to find someone else to care for Kamani. Meanwhile, Hughes brought Kamani back to Georgia to be with his mother.

However, only a few days before Hutchinson's original deployment date, she was told by the Army she would not get the time extension after all, and would have to deploy, despite not having found anyone to care for her child.

Faced with this choice, Hutchinson chose not to show up for her plane to Afghanistan. The military arrested her and placed her child in the county foster care system.

Currently, Hutchinson is scheduled to fly to Afghanistan on Sunday for a special court martial, where she then faces up to one year in jail.

Hutchinson's civilian lawyer, Rai Sue Sussman, told IPS, "The core issue is that they are asking her to make an inhumane choice. She did not have a complete family care plan, meaning she did not find someone to provide long-term care for her child. She's required to have a complete family care plan, and was told she'd have an extension, but then they changed it on her."

Asked why she believes the military revoked Hutchinson's extension, Sussman responded, "I think they didn't believe her that she was unable to find someone to care for her infant. They think she's just trying to get out of her deployment. But she's just trying to find someone she can trust to take care of her baby."

Hutchinson's mother has flown to Georgia to retrieve the baby, but is overwhelmed and does not feel able to provide long-term care for the child.

According to Sussman, the soldier needs more time to find someone to care for her infant, but does not as yet have friends or family able to do so.

Sussman says Hutchinson told her, "It is outrageous that they would deploy a single mother without a complete and current family care plan. I would like to find someone I trust who can take care of my son, but I cannot force my family to do this. They are dealing with their own health issues."

Sussman told IPS that the Army's JAG attorney, Captain Ed Whitford, "told me they thought her chain of command thought she was trying to get out of her deployment by using her child as an excuse." '

Major Gallagher, of Hutchinson's unit, also told Sussman that he did not believe it was a real family crisis, and that Hutchinson's "mother should have been able to take care of the baby".

In addition, according to Sussman, a First Sergeant Gephart "told me he thought she [Hutchinson] was pulling her family care plan stuff to get out of her deployment".

"To me it sounds completely bogus," Sussman told IPS, "I think what they are actually going to do is have her spend her year deployment in Afghanistan, then court martial her back here upon her return. This would do irreparable harm to her child. I think they are doing this to punish her, because they think she is lying."

Sussman explained that she believes the best possible outcome is for the Army to either give Hutchinson the extension they had said she would receive so that she can find someone to care for her infant, or barring this, to simply discharge her so she can take care of her child.

Nevertheless, Hutchinson is simply asking for the time extension to complete her family care plan, and not to be discharged.

"I'm outraged by this," Sussman told IPS, "I've never gone to the media with a military client, but this situation is just completely over the top."
 

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Dahr Jamail, an independent journalist, is the author of "The Will to Resist: Soldiers Who Refuse to Fight in Iraq and Afghanistan," (Haymarket Books, 2009), and "Beyond the Green Zone: Dispatches From an Unembedded Journalist in Occupied Iraq," (Haymarket Books, 2007). Jamail reported from occupied Iraq for nine months as well as from Lebanon, Syria, Jordan and Turkey over the last five years.


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Where is

Where is 'home-depot-I-love-god-&-my-country' guy when you really need him?? Or maybe any Bush, Cheney, Rove, Boehner, Palin, or Romney kids?


Both the Sergeant and the

Both the Sergeant and the Major should be thrown in jail. Not Ms. Hutchinson.


The deployment of single

The deployment of single parents or both parents is a sad and unfortunate side effect of the new military demographic, and a disturbing commentary on the prolonged nature of American involvement in the middle east. When our military leaders consider the placement of children into our already overburdened and broken foster care system a suitable compromise for placing one more pair of boots in the sand in this insane war we as a nation have indeed jumped the shark in terms of common sense. Single mothers and fathers without a suitable family support system are so disadvantaged as to be forced into Sophie's choice situations. We are privileged to have an all volunteer military, but with the poor economic situation limiting job opportunity so severely more people are joining the military simply to have income to provide for their families. I am surprised we aren't hearing more stories such as this. Good luck to this young mother. The military should do everything within its power to keep families together.


Geez. The Army should have

Geez. The Army should have some understanding that not every enlistee or officer is blessed with a huge extended family who is able to take over guardianship of a child when the member is about to deploy. What does the Army not understand about the member's middle aged parent already taking care of a special needs daughter and being overwhelmed with the addition of an 11 month old baby? What's someone to do in that situation but continue seeking better options. Causing that member's kid to be put into foster care is yet another black mark on the Army's reputation as a whole. Foster care is gonna permanently mark that kid in some hugely negative ways. Disgusting.


1) Call the Pentagon

1) Call the Pentagon switchboard (703-545-6700) and ask to speak to the office of the Secretary of the Army, John McHugh 2) Call the Pentagon's Office of Public Communication (703-428-0711) and say that you have a message for Secretary of Defense Robert Gates 3) Call the White House (202-456-1111) and say that you have a message for President Obama.


Thanks, Steve. Those are

Thanks, Steve. Those are just the numbers I was hoping someone would post. I'll be calling on Monday, and I hope many others will call too. This is outrageous, and it is a disgrace that we would treat a mother who volunteered to serve her country this way.


While this is a tragic

While this is a tragic situation, speaking as a former military member, and single parent while enlisted, I can't help but want to tell this woman that she brought this upon herself. She knew her mother's situation and still thought that mom could take on the responsibility of raising her child. While I don't agree with this insane war, I do feel for her fellow soldiers, who are now deployed short-handed because of her inaction. I guess you have to be a vet to see this from the military's side. I do hope that this situation is resolved with as little damage to all concerned as possible.


In her child's first year in

In her child's first year in 'foster care', her child will be traumatized by going through about six 'homes'. That trauma will be lifelong. I know, I've been there. Debbie, she only found out her mother was overwhelmed when her mother was overwhelmed, not before. She should not be deployed until a proper family care plan is in place for her child, and child protective services is not such a plan. Thanks for listening.


What kind of soldier will

What kind of soldier will this woman be? How insane are we going to become before we regain the ability to think. I would not want a distraught person watching my back. Then again, who in war is not distraught?


The foster care system in

The foster care system in the state of Georgia is hazardous to the life of this child. It is child abuse by the Military, making a mother abandon her child. The state of Georgia was sued by an attorney when a child in their care was murdered by the foster care parent. He was starved and beat to death, weighing 30 pounds at age 9 when he was taken to a hospital and the Doctors there exclaimed "THANK GOD HE'S DEAD" BECAUSE THEIR WAS NOTHING THEY COULD DO.


Once again, the STUPIDITY of

Once again, the STUPIDITY of the whole Afghanistan mess comes forth in all its glory! As I recall, Bush went into Afghanistan to "get" bin Laden! Then, it became a "nation-building" operation. . .at the expense of tearing down OUR nation! A possible solution is to deploy Hutchinson "state-side" in one of a myriad OTHER military tasks. Of course, that implies that actual thought takes place somewhere in the Pentagon! I apologize for the jumble of my response. However, I am overwhelmed by the nonsensical situation that, apparently, is so out of hand!!!! When is this absurdity going to end??!!! And, that "Bush-like" Obama is mulling over "how many more troops should I send??"


Another excellent example of

Another excellent example of how we cater to our brave service men and women. Forget about Afghanistan, I think even the Taliban would have had more heart and less misogyny. How can we wage a war when we've lost already lost our home and humanity? The enemy, Exxon, Xe,and the energy suckers have already won. Say you got a revolution...Wee ell you knoooooow. Hugo...save us, brother.


This is prime example of how

This is prime example of how disengaged our leaders are. We're throwing mothers in jail instead of the leaders who highjacked our soldiers into a war with no end, no purpose and no gain. These soldiers are not volunteers. They are chattel -- slave labor-- with absolutely no choice. The rules change with the whim of political/military dictators and what they signed up for is NOT what they've received.


it is insane, she is the

it is insane, she is the sole provider but where's the father?


The military is nothing more

The military is nothing more than romanticized slavery. She shouldnt have signed up to be a slave if you didnt want to be a slave. Now slave, get to work or you'll be punished by master.


AAH...THE BEGIN OF LIFE IN

AAH...THE BEGIN OF LIFE IN AN ORWELLIAN WORLD:( WHERE IS THE FATHER???????


Women are put in impossible

Women are put in impossible situations like this when our government refuses to pay for birth control or abortions for women in the military. We don't know if the child was planned, but any reasonable person in Hutchison's position would not have gotten pregnant in the first place. The general consensus among the GOP and Christian right is that if a woman has a baby out of wedlock she is a sinner and/or her mother she have to take responsibility for her mistakes. Does the army pay for childcare while the parent or parents are deployed? If not, why not? Children are people, not items to put on the shelf to be dealt with when it is convenient for everyone. Then I see news like the following notice for a labor union contract. By all means, males must have their male enhancement drugs paid for, and plenty of them. Free Viagra has become the new normal for American men. Do the math. This is pure stupidity, not to mention cruel to an innocent baby. It is also a double standard for women and children, grossly unfair and inhumane. That poor grandmother doesn't have much of a life now. Bravo for her for being honest enough to say no to her daughter and to the Army. It must have been a heartbreaking decision for her to make. IT'S STILL A MAN'S WORLD 2009: The employees of the Southeastern Pennsylvania Transportation Authority (SEPTA) end a strike after convincing the bosses to increase Viagra coverage: (Found via Jim Edwards' BNET Pharma blog.) http://www.dailyfinance.com/2009/11/07/no-viagra-no-peace-philly-transit-workers-rise-up-in-protest/ The Southeastern Pennsylvania Transportation Authority has agreed to cover almost all of its rising health-care costs, and to increase coverage for Pfizer's (PFE) Viagra and other erectile dysfunction treatments, the Philadelphia Daily News reports. Workers are unhappy that their health insurance plan only covers about 10 pills a month. http://industry.bnet.com/pharma/10005258/philly-transit-bosses-give-workers-viagra-to-end-strike/


The Family-Values crowd and

The Family-Values crowd and the Right-to-Life crowd should be up in arms and outraged. No, we should ALL be outraged and get into the streets demanding a return to the draft, which excused mothers of infants, etc - and which led to a pullout from that earlier disastrous war in Vietnam.


This woman should not be

This woman should not be deployed. Children are a sacred trust. This is an extreme example of how this war-based system devours Americans and spits out the bones. As a nation we are so traumatized from an endless succession of wars that we can not see that peace is not created with the methods of war. This woman and her child are a sacrificial offering to a futile exercise. In a country with a moral center there would be no debate, she would not be deployed.


When I was in the Army

When I was in the Army during Gulf War I , I was threatened with the same exact thing. Except, I was still PREGNANT! The Army told me I would have to put my 3 day old baby in foster care.There was no way I would do that!! I had to call my congressman, who helped me. So I fought it, and won!


She signed up for the army.

She signed up for the army. What did she think was going to happen?


There is no earthly reason

There is no earthly reason for this woman to be deployed - none! She and her child should never have been separated, and this is the Army at its worst. She is scheduled to be deployed today - but I have not heard if she was. Does anyone know? On Common Dreams, the Public Communications officer for the base posted a two-section response to this article, and claims that she was not arrested and her mother has the child, in direct contradiction to this article. Please if anyone in Georgia could call in the morning to see if the child is in their custody still and let people know, it would be a great help. I live in Washington, and would willingly take in this child, but I do not think I can because of child care laws in the two states. Is there someone on the base who is willing to take in the child that this soldier knows? What is wrong with people in the military and those who command them? This is insane! We need to protect our children - not send them to war, and especially, not separate them as infants from their parents!


Oh right! save the fetus. Is

Oh right! save the fetus. Is this the same woman who was denied an abortion 11mos. ago? Sure she signed up (under pressure from her big tall single male recruiter?) how about sending him and give her his recruiting job? or some other job in her own town, these guys are looney tunes! So she has to go over there and kick down doors and shoot some other mother and her 11mos.old because they 'suspect' there's a terrorist inside. sick.


If my husband agreed, I

If my husband agreed, I would offer to watch her son on her behalf during her year of deployment. But I'd like the military's assurance that she would not be charged in any way for doing the right thing by caring for her sole charge. No one should EVER have to go through this. Besides, my soon-to-be 4 year old son would love to have a "friend" around.


Her own damn fault for

Her own damn fault for joining the US army. What did she *think* would happen?


Is this the same military

Is this the same military that gave Cheney five deferments, including the last one because Liz was on the way?


Who do we contact to

Who do we contact to volunteer providing a safe home for the baby?


This story is a disgrace, a

This story is a disgrace, a mother facing possible imprisonment for a year. Don't we have better things to spend our tax dollars on? First of all, the military should provide single parents with childcare options if they have no one else. That alone, besides being the decent and American thing to do, would cost a whole lot less than imprisoning the mom. Secondly, our obscene health care system and failure to redress those issues, has placed the soldier's mother in the insane position of caring for 3 other ill adults without any assistance. If our healthcare system, in and of itself, were fixed, her mother would probably be caring for the child for the entire period. I am increasingly so disgusted with my country these days. This story alone is a sign of how we are on a one way collision course for self-destructing. Who needs "insurgents" strapping themselves with bombs? This country is doing itself in.


Wyrdless: You're an idiot.

Wyrdless: You're an idiot.


A good system should include

A good system should include the proper care of the children of our military. Yes, women being treated equally in the service of our country opts us out for different standards. Equalization may equate to deployment; however, it is up to a proper system to properly deal with the family. We are all part of that family. I volunteer to take care of this child. This whole situation is ridiculous and unconscionable. A VOLUNTEER is being punished for giving her life for her country. This country is not in trouble. It has drowned.


End the war, and quit

End the war, and quit subsidizing military childbirth. As a civilian, it costs me hundreds out of pocket, even thousands, in addition to the health insurance premiums, if my wife gives birth. In the military, it's practically free! This is an outrageous waste of my tax money! The military is no place to raise children. I know. I was there as a military "brat" and as a soldier.


Say What - this is too stupid

Say What - this is too stupid


Every parent should have a

Every parent should have a required reading rule for their children, namely "The Kingdom of God is Within You" by Leo Tolstoy. This is a must-read before a child turns of age to think about joining the military. As per Tolstoy, this poor, hapless young woman is now a military slave, having given up her freedom and, in addition, sold her child into slavery. Any military recruiters: Stay away my strong, healthy, athletic and intelligent sons. You can keep signing up those that think they "protect our freedoms" by killing people in weak, distant countries. Is it so hard to see that we create ten true enemies for every so-called "enemy" we kill? So go the economics of the military-industrial complex. They need this. Why do people assume we must respect those in the military and pretend they are "the best and the brightest," or worse, that they're "heroes?" If everyone would wake up and see military people as they are: not heroic, but as any other person with a job, these wars would fizzle evanescently into nonexistence with no one to sign their lives away to those "above" them. I have no enemies, nor do my children, besides those who would command my children to kill people trying to protect their own country from American aggression. I would never kill someone, so of course not just because someone with IQ just above that of a house plant told me to. Of course we kill people for the purpose of ____... hmmmm, for what, again?


As a veteran of both the

As a veteran of both the Marine Corps and the Army, Nam era, I am appalled at the bone-headed stupidity of the service and lack of sensitivityt/support for this soldier, who is willing to go if her child is properly cared for. Another "cluster-f" for the service.


Well,, She was told before

Well,, She was told before hand. Its not just a job, it's an adventure. Women should NOT be in combat roles. She JOINED of her own FREE WILL. Tough cookie.


This is UNBELIEVABLE; even

This is UNBELIEVABLE; even more so that Hutchinson and her son are from my own community (Oakland, CA). I plan to (1) contact Hutchinson's civilian attorney; (2) call and write my Congresswoman (Barbara Lee) and two senators (Barbara Boxer and Dianne Feinstein); (3) send a letter to President Obama; and (4) contact the Secretary of Defense. I hope that you will join me in my efforts


This is very sad. The story

This is very sad. The story of this piece, while touching, is also ridiculous. We are at war. Soldiers have to deploy as part of the war effort. Soliders, male and female, have children and they have to ensure adequate family care plans in order to be on active duty. It is not the Army's job to parent this soldier's child, it is her job and the job of her support system. I am a former Naval officer and I resigned my commission while I was on maternity leave. I only had 6 months in a nondeployable status while Spec Hutchinson enjoyed 12 (change of policy to try to retain more women). I miss the Navy, but I know I could not be a mother and on active duty. It didn't work for my family, but it sounds like Spec Hutchinson tried to have it both ways. This is a sad case, but I blame her poor planning and unrealistic expectations that she could be active duty and not deploy. Sure, call the Pentagon, call the President, but please do it to end the maiming, end the chaos, and end ALL parents having to deploy and leave their little ones. But remember that even in peacetime, choosing to wear a uniform means being ready to deploy. If you can't make that choice, you shouldn't wear the uniform.


If she or a direct family

If she or a direct family member has a membership in the Veterans of Foreign Wars, the VFW National Home for Children might be able to help. http://www.vfwnationalhome.org/about_us/index.shtml


So what nitwit allowed a

So what nitwit allowed a single mother in the army?And the photo is UNRELATED to this article.What B.S. This is a wrongheaded article about a problem this woman brought on herself!!!!!!What about personal responsibility!


Soooo women can't help

Soooo women can't help becoming pregnant?Why volunteer for Army service and then become a SINGLE mother. It's beyond stupid and irresponsible.Send her over.Yes, the kid will be screwed up but that is on HER head.


ps The Soldier in this photo

ps The Soldier in this photo should sue this site for the abusive use of her image.This is not the person in the article.


This is not so much a

This is not so much a comment, as ... do you know how to contact these people? We're in North Carolina, and willing to take this boy into our home and care for him. We'd be happy to have him, we have a large house, and he would be well cared for and loved.


I am shocked by this report.

I am shocked by this report. My husband and I are more than willing and able to care for her child. We may be strangers, but we would loving care for him as long as needed and be her life long friend. God bless her during this trial.


The military's inhumane

The military's inhumane treatment of its own people is nothing short of sick, twisted, cruel and sadistic. In instances like this, it is difficult not to see that in some ways the military is becoming the enemy of the American people, at least those who are targeted for enlistment (uneducated, impoverished minorities). Debbie, perhaps she did know her mother's situation (and of course her mother knew it), but it had to have been a last, desperate attempt on both of their parts to see if the mother could somehow manage, against the odds, to take on an 11-month old baby. I had decades in the military, and I can see it from both sides (also being a woman and a mother), and the LAST thing I would ever think to do is to blame this situation on the mother! Moreover, it is beyond ludicrous to suggest that by her not deploying that her fellow soldiers would be caught "short handed." Get real. ONE soldier who would be joining her comrades even a month or two late is NOT going to lose that UNwinable war!!!! If you are intent on finding blame, you should start with her military commanders who reneged on their promise to give her more time. Then move on to Obama for allowing Bush's spirit to take over his body to continue these deadly, destructive, disastrous wars. Despicable.


Take the discharge- F--K the

Take the discharge- F--K the army... they have no business being in Afghanistan and Iraq in the first place...ooops I forgot..OIL...duh


That child will soon

That child will soon say-----"Remind me again why I should love my country?"


Shame on America !!!

Shame on America !!!


This should be handled just

This should be handled just like it would at any regular job. If she can't do the job she was hired for due to a change in personal circumstances, and the company she works for does not have another position they can offer her that is compatible with her situation, then they should part ways. What is so complicated? Does she have the family values to properly provide for her family? There is no mention of the child's father in the article - where is he? The military's policy should be that a family care plan be in place at all times or you are discharged so it won't go down to the 11th hour. It sounds to me that the Army has a valid argument here as the article is too one sided - no input from the Army is included. Just what I would expect from a rabid left wing author.


Regular Job? Army's

Regular Job? Army's job....Taking lives.... Regular job?... How ever we paint it up... monkey's are taking guns places and are being asked to kill people... What ever the issues are.... "Thou shall not kill". Jus popped in to to what the sick left wingers are doing? eh? "Right winger" in the comment above....The good points you made in your comment are clouded by your labeling techniques, and your distorted thinking related to your tendency to divide us up into one or the other. We are all together and are one... when we kill our enemies... we are killing ourselves.... Let the families be together.... Court martial is not that bad of a thing for the girl compared to what it will be like to live with the burden of taking more lives and living with that after the leaders resolve what ever justifications they had to kill in the first place. After living with my dad who fought in Normandy's first wave... I wish that there was no army, no guns, no bombs and no need for protecting our stuff, their stuff or any other reason to take lives. I watched my Dad be tormented by the ghosts of those he killed. I was awoken in the middle of the night to hear my Dad screaming at the top of his lungs that the Germans had cut off his hands in his sleep, a common practice to prevent those who were wounded to not be a threat. If she has already fought, the damage is done... the family is fried anyways... might as well jail her too... and fry the kid too eh? Thats what makes us strong... right? It takes two wings to fly left and right.... working together... If EVERYONE who was fighting on both sides were to STOP there would be peace... But I think these issues we fight over are more important than life and God himself... thats the real issue here... A bunch of monkey's who think they know the true path and are willing to die to prove it.... Such a waste of energy and love... that is not why we all came here to be with each other... Peace


This is called EQUALITY! A

This is called EQUALITY! A male solider that has children must insure that he has a care taker for them so he is deployable, if he cannot do so he gets a lees than honorable discharge. If he does like this woman has and gets orders and then says of my caretaker can't then he gets a court martial for failing to comply with a lawful order, just like this woman is. When you join the military you sign a contract as part of the contract is a clause stating that if you breed you must insure that you have someone to take care of that child, so that you can live up to your obligation to be deployable. Getting pregnant is a CHOICE, this military will provide you effective methods of birth control; if for religious or moral reasons you chose to not to use them well then there is always the ability to say NO! This woman made a choice to go into the military, there is no draft, when she chose to do this she voluntarily signed a contract saying that she would willingly live by their rules and regulations. She is CHOOSING not to do so. What many of you are forgetting is that since this selfish woman will not honor her commitment some other solider will now have to take her place, it stands to be a good chance that the solider who does so has already served over there and will now be forced to leave his family because this woman refuses to honor the commitment she made. She deserves the Court martial!


I tried to call the Office

I tried to call the Office of the Secretary of the Army at the Pentagon; their response: It is miss Hutchinson's fault that she got pregnant in the first place, it is her fault that knowing she would be a single mother didn't abort the child (which I guess you can do now in the military), or once it was born give it up for adoption. "The military would never not give someone enough time to find proper care for a child." I am sickened, and disturbed that a woman of service or anyone for that matter would be treated this way. My voice as a citizen was not heard, they just laughed in my face. They couldn't understand why someone who doesn't even know this woman would try to defend her. In fact, the woman I talked to was in the military and a single mother. She said miss Hutchinson should have made better choices. If she was given a choice, I'm sure she would have.


Never EVER join the

Never EVER join the Military. http://www.zeitgeistmovie.com/


We have a military

We have a military dictatorship charged with defending our "democracy" and they're all trained to kill but not trained how to have healthy emotional relationships. Our whole country would benefit if those facts were to change for the better because they interact with all of us. But until that happens, I suggest keeping your expectations rather low.


One more great reason to not

One more great reason to not join the armed services.


If I were her , I would tell

If I were her , I would tell them to go to HELL and accept a court martial . The war is illegal and immoral . Let's DEMAND that every year 25 % of our WAR MONGERING Congressmen be sent to the front lines with our troops to prove their resolve and patriotism . Put up or SHUT UP


the American Army doing its

the American Army doing its best to protect the American people! Who needs Al Qaeda?


My family lives in Indiana,

My family lives in Indiana, but we would be happy to watch the little boy until his mother returns. We have a 2 year old that would love another child to play with.


Why on earth doesn't she

Why on earth doesn't she just accept the court matial,if she doesn't want to leave her child? You can't have your cake and eat it too. So when she signed up, she was in a different mindset than now... ok fine. She has perfectly valid reasons for changing her mind. Does that mean she shouldn't get court marshaled, of course not. Respect and face up to the consequences for your actions. Seems like a dishonorable discharge would be best for for the Army and the soldier.


Lets not forget we have a

Lets not forget we have a VOLUNTEER military. Let me also note that the military offers hardship discharge for women who get pregnant while serving! She had opportunity to remedy the situation. It only became a problem(excuse) when her unit was being shipped out...then the gravy train was over.


This is an issue of personal

This is an issue of personal responsibility. Everyone knows what the military expects from you when you commit to them. No sane person would argue that "Yes, I thought I'd be expected to sacrifice my life but no day care! That's crazy!" Yes, the Army might have been better served by giving her another chance, but it's not like she joined yesterday. We are in two wars (justified or not) and the military is spread thin. I'm sure she was well aware of what was expected of her. It is therefore no surprise that that the military feels she is using this as a ploy to dodge her obligations. So, to all the liberal bleeding hearts that say she she be let go, how about all the guys that don't have an easy out? How about the men that are depending on her and are now in greater risk of life and limb due to her poor planning? Is this yet another case where we are all expected to swallow the line that Women are equal to men with just a wink wink acknowledgement? She joined of her own free will. She made a commitment to the armed forces, and the nation and her peers depend on her to follow through. No backing out now that reality is setting in.


People keep asking "where's

People keep asking "where's the father?" but a large number of women today in their early 20s and so on are alone in taking care of their children and many children s fathers are not involved in their lives. It sounds like this one is not at all and many women raise their kids alone. But her situation is unique and I say kudos to her for not abandoning her child like many would have.


To 17:36, you have a point.

To 17:36, you have a point. Plus, a year in jail might be better for the mom and her son than whatever might happen to her in Afghanistan and her son not having any mom afterwards, or, a mom who is terribly disabled.


I think she should be

I think she should be deployed or kept in military prison. When you are put on active duty you KNOW that you have to show up or you will be thrown in jail.


18:39 - "She joined of her

18:39 - "She joined of her own free will. She made a commitment to the armed forces, and the nation and her peers depend on her to follow through. No backing out now that reality is setting in." The military needs to provide childcare options for single parents who do not have other resources. This is nothing short of cruel, to the mother and the child, and a mother who is bravely trying to serve her country. Our military people deserve more. Plus, her mother -- the grandmother -- would be able to provide for the child if we had a healthcare system like France that sends assistance in the homes of sick and ailing adults. Our entire nation deserves more, and we pay for it all around in more ways than one, and as evidenced in this story. Lastly, this woman's son is eleven months old. Did she become pregnant in Afghanistan? And if she did, wasn't she deprived the right to choose whether or not to have a child? Seems to me, the same people who wanted her to "choose life" should now be advocating her support much more greatly, now that she has done exactly that. She is a single woman who needs to support herself and her child. She works for the military. She is entitled to decent benefits, and a standard of living like anyone else. Even moreso, as a member of the military. Your words have nothing to do with commitment and honor. Your attitude towards this female soldier is like she's a slave or something. The military treats women like garbage. It's disgusting. It's disgusting.


My partner and I would be

My partner and I would be more than happy to care for this child. We live in a safe and child-friendly neighborhood in San Francisco (just over the water from Oakland). I work at home. We have resources to spare. I'd love to have a little kid to spoil for a year.


Sounds like Mom and Daughter

Sounds like Mom and Daughter thought they came up with a way for daughter not to have to deploy. Guess they were wrong.


sounds like poor planning on

sounds like poor planning on the side of the mother. if you are going to have a child why isng up for the military... unles you thought it woudl get your out of it in the first place.... and on a lighter not WOMEN chose to be allowed into the ranks. deal with it. men have to leave there children behind all the time. choose your abttles wisely this is just dumb.


This is one of the reasons

This is one of the reasons why women of childbearing age or who have children already have no business being in the military in the first place. Her child will be messed up for life, and she will be useless to her unit. The military should give her a dishonorable discharge immediately.


I read the baby is with the

I read the baby is with the grandmother in California, someone needs to fact check this article. But I will still be making calls on behalf of Ms Hutchinson and spreading the word.


Surprisingly, I have

Surprisingly, I have absolutely no witty commentary for this. Shameful on so many levels.


What about 'the ARMY does

What about 'the ARMY does not care' don't people understand. You join, you have no rights, none, they could care less if your child rots, you lose your home, or you die, just so long as you obey your orders and can kill without hesitation.


To P.K. and others who think

To P.K. and others who think this is about giving women special treatment--I would also be in favour of a single dad being excused from deployment if he were in her situation. To Wyrdles, Drifter, and others who say she should never have joined up. Do you realize that, with the Welfare program in the U.S. being trashed for decades many, many women and men join up because there is an "economic draft"? You say she had a choice, but maybe the choice was for her to join up or for and her kid to be homeless.


Point #1 where is the

Point #1 where is the father, who is the father? Point #2 good reason women shouldn't be in the army. Point #3 good reason for mandatory abortion for any enlisted person who gets pregnant.


Yet another reason why women

Yet another reason why women should not be allowed in the military...


Spc. Hutchinson should be

Spc. Hutchinson should be immediately separated from the service with an honorable discharge. Once, single parents were to allowed to serve in the Armed Forces. This was because the child's welfare was of paramount importance and a parent cannot be a parent, when deployed in a combat theater. But also, a single parent will have inescapable responsibilities that are incompatible with the "country first" requirement of military service. Too bad we allowed political correctness to set us up for situations such as this one.


You know, I volunteered to

You know, I volunteered to do my job too, and lots of folks depend on me. But if I had to quit my job because I didn't have anyone to take care of my child while I worked, I would NOT have to spend a year in prison for it. I raised my son to NEVER join the military for any reason. If we need to defend the country, we are better off here in the country that needs defending with our right to bear arms. This woman should have been given a general discharge, and sent on her way to serve her country in much more important way- by raising a loved and cared for child who is then more likely to grow up to be a sane, contributing member of society. Let's not forget what is truly important here. People are reluctant to join the military because of this very sort of thing. Those of you who defend this inhumane way of treating our service people better take a good look at the fascist, brainwashing, mind control BS you advocate. Pathetic.


I can't believe the Army

I can't believe the Army even has soldiers in this situation. Single mothers should never be allowed in the military.


What is with all these

What is with all these people joining the Armed Forces, reaping the benefits, they trying to skip out when it is time to pay up? We have people shooting up military bases rather than serve the country that served him, and we have people like this person who obfuscate personal responsibility and use their child as a means to an end. Look, regardless of whether or not she is a mother or if it was man instead, she is a soldier first and has the obligations of a soldier, that being, if called on to make the ultimate sacrifice. That's the deal men have lived with, that's the only way an army can work effectively. She rode the Army and now it's too inconvenient for her to live up to the obligations and duties she agreed to, no one put a gun to her head and made her sign up or cash checks. What did she think she would be doing in the military?


When you sign your

When you sign your enlistment papers, you sign away the right to your OWN BODY. The military OWNS you for the period of your enlistment and the rights to you unless you have fulfilled your stop-loss period. This would be tragic IF it had happened during stop-loss, however it was NOT HER RIGHT to have a child while enlisted. She broke the rules. I knew a girl who got pregnant during her enlistment and not only did they take her child from her, they also charged her with adultery, gave her an article 15, demoted her, then forced her to serve the rest of her time in military prison. This person is LUCKY so far, but it looks like she is headed the same way. You CANNOT have a child while enlisted, it is the MILITARY.


So the army has managed to

So the army has managed to promote idiots up to the rank of Major. To those who are responsible for this; I hope your karma catches up with you in Afghanistan.


And another thing, this

And another thing, this woman is willing to risk her life for our right to control most of the oil in the world for little more than minimum wage. Her darling 11 month old son risks growing up as an orphan if she gets killed over there. And, for all of you complaining that the picture is not of Specialist Hutchinson, that's true and I saw a picture of her in a San Francisco paper, and she is an african american woman. I wonder if that has anything to do with why those officers assumed she was lying?


Gee Obama, thanks for ending

Gee Obama, thanks for ending the war. Way To Fail!


Whys is a blog post entitled

Whys is a blog post entitled TRUTH OUT using an image that is not the woman in this story? Seems disingenuous and manipulative to me. Actually makes me rethink the validity of everything I've ever seen on here...


I am willing to take the

I am willing to take the child for her deployment if she can get him to Indiana. No charge. My baby is all grown up and I have no others. There is no one who would do this in California?? And I am not some nutcase, just wiling to do something for my country, this child and this lady.


Why the generic picture?

Why the generic picture? There are pics of the real mother and real child available.


Is the President aware of

Is the President aware of this? Is he willing to do anything about it?? This is absolute insanity!!


Most likely, the woman made

Most likely, the woman made the wrong statements to her superiors early on about her mother being able to care for the child. The military expects soldiers to make perfect decisions the first time, or to stick to the wrong decision, and allows no room for error correction. While the military should adapt a more in-depth approach to dealing with soldiers who have custody over young children, in this case I'm going to guess this woman is actually avoiding using military care because she has early separation anxiety. The best possible solution here would have been to allow her the original extension, but force her to agree to using military foster care for the child if she could not find an acceptable caretaker before the deadline. As punishment and simultaneously as the most effective solution, force her to do so as military leave, allowing her to dedicate all the time to dealing with her family issues.


Where's the dad? Why can't

Where's the dad? Why can't he or his family watch the baby?


She IS trying to get out of

She IS trying to get out of her deployment. Can't you people see the obvious.


the american military is

the american military is interested in two things: war and the money to be made off war.(defense contractors,etc) the sooner you understand that, the better off you'll be. the Pentagon knows that more war means bigger budgets in the future. so far, 0.7 Trillion goes to those criminals.


This is why women don't

This is why women don't belong in the military.


Frankly, I think it's insane

Frankly, I think it's insane that we, as a country, allow single parents (as well as double military households where both parents are called to active duty simultaneously) to be deployed so that no parent at all is home to care for the children. It seems there are ways to utilize these folks closer to home rather than sending them away. It's bad enough when one parent in a two-parent household is away. . . we should not tolerate the army to make "parentless" homes in pursuit of their inane wars.


I wish I knew her...I'd take

I wish I knew her...I'd take care of her child for her until she was able to come back. I would also make sure he knew as much as I could possibly teach him about who his mom was, and how hurt she was to be away from him at all. It's bad enough they are making her go, when she is his only parent...but to revoke her extension and make her face jail time is horrendous.


God bless Amerikan freedom.

God bless Amerikan freedom.


Ummm....my question is what

Ummm....my question is what mom would leave her child with internet people? Nice of you to offer but I would lose respect for the soldier if she accepted. While this war is not about protecting freedom (seems like we're imposing our will on a bunch of fundamentalist not-christians after the excuse that a few from a different country went all Timothy Mcveigh) She is a soldier, she would be fine with killing a bunch of rag-heads if she could properly care for her daughter. Which of course she be allowed to do, she should be discharged, perferably neither honorably or dishonorably.


The GI Bill is for veterans

The GI Bill is for veterans who serve. If you just let her skip her deployment she will get all of the benefits without the hardships. I don't particularly want to pay for 4 years of college for some woman trying to get over on the system. Throw her out, give her her kid back and put her on welfare.


They made a movie about

They made a movie about this. It was called "Sophie's Choice."


19:43 "men have to leave

19:43 "men have to leave there children behind all the time." Yeah, right, well too bad she doesn't also have a little wife back on the ranch to babysit 24/7. Duh.


i live 20 minutes from

i live 20 minutes from oakland, and i swear i wish i knew her, because i would definitly offer to take care of her child. i may have 3 of my own , but we do alright. the way the army does people disgusts me. they had no right to take her child from her and place her in foster care, or throw the mother in jail. i wish i could help!


16:03 No this is not

16:03 No this is not equality and the military does not provide you with the same choices as all American women. I hope you remember that women in the military are DENIED THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE because federally funded abortions are prohibited. Put that through, and you might have a further leg to stand on in your argument. Also, most male and even female soldiers with children have a wife or husband who becomes the primary careprovider back in the States. Single parents, especially single mothers, are in a very different position. We owe it to our military, and the military owes it to its soldiers, to ensure that appropriate childcare and family leave provisions exist for our soldiers who serve. The military needs improvement. We also need to attract more women into the military, and greatly improve conditions for women in the military -- conditions that are famously UNEQUAL and even horrific. This is not the way to do it.


For all of you who say that

For all of you who say that she should get out, that its her own fault, and that she should not have joined as a single mother consider another possibility. What if she joined, made a mistake, got pregnant and had the child. What if she did not come in as a single mother? Also alot of people don't realize that even if you request a discharge due to "pregnancy" or "motherhood" the request will be denied the majority of the time. Perhaps that she was just trying to complete her enlistment and get out before a situation like this came up. Yes she was in a bad situation, but before you go and say so many bad things about her, maybe you should think about what if she was trying to do what was best for her and her son. Give her the benefit of the doubt unless you personally know her and her COMPLETE situation.


A soldier is not allowed to

A soldier is not allowed to deploy if they cannot find other means for taking care of their kid. Inf act, a soldier will be DISCHARGED if they cannot find some other means for taking care of their kid when they're gone. Single parents have to have a family care plan (exactly for situations like this) or you're out. This story doesn't pass the sniff test. At best, it's one sided. Army Veteran


To EVERYONE who wants to cut

To EVERYONE who wants to cut her slack: How interesting that you are all willing to allow someone else, someone who planned in advance and took personal responsibility to go in her place and possibly die in Afghanistan or Iraq. That someone is probably some other kid's mother or father, but no matter. It's all about giving this idiot chance after chance and eventually sending someone else to die in her place. I hope they make her go and court martial her. I wouldn't want my husband going in her place.


No 11 month old should be

No 11 month old should be separated from its mother. It's a crime against nature. Read "The Primal Wound" by Nancy Verrier. You are doing irreperanble harm to any child by separating it from its mother in infancy. Find me any successful or famous person who has been abandoned by its mother? Don't bother because there aren't any. Without its mother's proximity an infant loses trust and trust makes all the difference in the world.


She signed up, did she not

She signed up, did she not expect to get deployed !? Sorry but I can't feel for this woman, she's just trying to dodge her duty. A guy would never be able to pull this type of thing. Ban single moms from military service.


I'll take him for a year.

I'll take him for a year. He's super cute! (Not pictured above, btw). We're in Georgia and I'd have done the same thing; foster care is NOT a place you want your kid. Ironically. Situations like this are why I don't think women should really be in the military. It's just not a family environment. But it has its function and soldiers deserve respect. If you don't know what they go through, just in basic (let alone on deployment), then don't knock them. It's a totally different world in the military.


I'd be honored to care for

I'd be honored to care for her baby. I know it doesn't solve the larger issue but I believe in helping where you can and not taking on the weight of the world. I'm guessing she'd be unwilling to let strangers care for her baby, but we're nice people with two kids of our own, plus space and money to take on another child. Amy (at) SelfishMom (dot) com


Got an idea! Let's start the

Got an idea! Let's start the draft again!! One tour, like in Nam, and your done. Unless you want to go back. Start the Draft again and see how long these manufactured and useless wars go on! Want to see the country unite? Wait to see what happens when everyone from 18-45 (not just males) has to sign up for a Draft Card.


Sounds like she is tryin to

Sounds like she is tryin to get out of deploting you are given plenty of time to take care of your personal buisness before deployment. She sHould just get pregnant again thats what all the other femals in the army do to get out of deploying


I'm a female with a

I'm a female with a deployment to Iraq and currently in Afghanistan. This soldier sounds like she has a lot of chaos in her life. Some of it brought on by herself. Where is the baby's father? Can his family take the kid. I have seen many woman leave their children at home and serve honorably. This one should be chaptered out. When you join the military, expect to be deployed. If you don't do your part, that puts a burden on your fellow soldiers. The military is not for everyone. If you can't handle your home life, you have no business looking out for your buddies life.


the under lying problem here

the under lying problem here is not the child, but rather the lack of discipline on the soldiers behalf. as a soldier myself i know that the laws in the military state that we have to always maintain a valid and current family care plan. we are soldiers, we have a responsibility that is to country and the freedoms of Americans, even though it may seam harsh the soldier is the one at fault here...she should have been better prepared or chosen to leave the Army


This is ridiculous. I would

This is ridiculous. I would figure it's common sense to keep a mother and her child together instead of forcing them apart. She doesn't even have some crucial job, she's just a cook.


"Women are put in impossible

"Women are put in impossible situations like this when our government refuses to pay for birth control or abortions for women in the military." Ummm....what? I am a female in the military and my birth control is paid for by the military. Oh and we can walk in and get the morning after pill for free as well. Try getting your facts straight. Abortions are not free, I will give you that. I have read a lot of articles on this topic and they all say different things. This one says she didn't have a completed care package others say she did. I have a feeling this girl did have a family care plan in place and then the grandmother backed out. Unfortunately it is up to the member to make sure the guardians they pick for the plan are actually able to take care of the child. So she is at fault to an extent.


It's truly sad that

It's truly sad that Specialist Hutchinson didn't plan ahead enough to find somebody to take care of her child. She volunteered to join the Army and should have realized that deployments require a lot of planning. You'd think she and her mother would have figured out a little earlier that the mom was too busy to take in the grandchild; that she would be overwhelmed because of the other people she is already taking care of. Whether you enlist in the military in peace time or in war, whether you are a single parent or not, whether we are going to Iraq, Afghanistan, or Kuwait etc. you will be deployed. She brought this upon herself when she rose her hand and took the oath. Send her to Afghanistan if we are at war there; she is no exception to all of the other soldiers who are actually fulfilling the oath that they took and making their own sacrifices.


Actually just saw her

Actually just saw her interview on TV. She chose to have her mother be the care provider for her care plan. It is her fault for not fixing it when that wasn't the case anymore. And they gave her a 30 day extension. And she thinks she should not deploy because she has a kid. Yea that isn't the case and she probably should have gotten out when she was pregnant (they give you that option).


Why the white mama? isnt the

Why the white mama? isnt the mama black?


Where's the father? Why is

Where's the father? Why is she in the military? How long has she been in the military? Why doesn't she just allow herself to be discharged and get on with raising her child herself? This child is only 11 months old? Is the father military? Did she have him while in the military? Did she not consider having to deploy in the future when she got pregnant? There are methods of preventing pregnancys!!! When a person joins the military, they sign a contract and have obligations. They need to know their responsibilities and plan for all possible repurcussions. My heart goes out to the child. The mother has choices and needs to make them.


19:28 "Your attitude towards

19:28 "Your attitude towards this female soldier is like she's a slave or something. The military treats women like garbage. It's disgusting. It's disgusting." What's disgusting is your implication that this woman is a hapless victim of life like a leaf blown in the wind that cannot choose where it wants to go. Get off your ridiculous belief that women are like children incapable of running their lives. She CHOSE to have a child, she CHOSE to join and now she CHOOSES to disobey. She signed a contract. It was spelled out for her. She gave her word. End of story. The Military is in the business of fighting wars, NOT the business of arranging peoples lives for them. The military has hundreds of thousands of men and women in harms way. Don't you think it's just a little ridiculous to expect the Army to now be responsible for running around and finding a nanny for her child? It's her kid, not theirs. It's her responsibility, not theirs. So, this woman is 0-2 she can't fulfill her job obligations and she can't take care of her kid. And again, these are HER problems not the military's.


Shame on you Dahr Jamail. I

Shame on you Dahr Jamail. I do feel for her and she shouldn't be deployed. To the author and the editor. I think the article is intentionally manipulative. You failed to mention that she's not white, while you ran a photo of a WHITE woman tearfully, hugging her child. The caption does say 'a soldier with her child'. You also, obviously, made a choice not to mention that she's a COOK in the army and that she's 21. By omitting key facts, you're not letting your reader form his or her own opinion. I saw one other post similar to mine, and I too, am not a fan of truthout.org and will be a lot more skeptical when I read anything here than I otherwise would have been.


The army is not supposed to

The army is not supposed to be a welfare system. If you are not a fighter you shouldn't join the Army. If you have a change in your life that prevents you from fighting for America then you should be discharged. The Army didn't make her pregnant her unmentioned partner did. We are short enough on people as it is to pay salaries to people who can't do their job. Sorry for her circumstance, but life is not always easy.


THIS IS WHY WOMEN SHOULD NOT

THIS IS WHY WOMEN SHOULD NOT BE IN THE ARMED FORCES. I mean seriously? Women do not belong there. They are mens equals yes, but not our identical ... we are equal but different! Dont get me wrong I love women. LOVE THEM!


Way to use the most

Way to use the most provocative photo possible. It's not even the same woman from the article.


Interesting how inhumane

Interesting how inhumane some of the commentary is here. A mirror on an increasingly fascist society. And the story itself: more proof how fascist the US military is. They used to brag about being "defenders of freedom" and babble about how evil the "Krauts" and "Russkies" were. Look at yourselves, folks.


Just emailed to the

Just emailed to the President. Mr. President, Allow me to extend my heartfelt thanks and admiration to you. Since entering office, you have paved the way for great change in North America, and the whole as a whole. I can only hope that in a few years time you remain in office, so as your inspiration may not dwindle. And congratulations on your Nobel prize win as well! However, I am not sure if you are aware of this, but its starting to make headlines. This article, http://www.truthout.org/1114098 in which it is outlined the circumstances of Alexis Hutchinson, USA Army Specialist. As you are a busy man, more so than most Presidents past, I doubt that such an issue has probably been brought to your attention. However, it breaks my heart, coming from a military family. I know how hard it can be, the impact it has on families. Despite the differences between Canadian military and American, this sort of thing just seems wrong Mr. Obama. I implore you to do something within your power to rectify this situation. For the welfare of the child, and the welfare of an American citizen. You are doing quite a good job improving your administrations reputation, and that of America around the world, but issues like this, the little things, are what corrodes it. So again, I implore you to do something. That child should not be put into the foster care system, nor should Ms. Hutchinson face criminal proceedings due to simply caring for the well-being of her child, An American citizen, and the future of your country. Thank you for your time. C. Gratton


Why did this woman not have

Why did this woman not have any contingency plans, why did she wait until the last minute to find a place for her child? It was her responsibility to make the care plan, not the Army's. Sounds like someone filled out enlistment papers that wasn't willing to get her crap together to do her job and take care of her family. It also sounds like another single woman who never learned about proper birth control and won't accept her responsibilities.


Well this is something that

Well this is something that I can speak intelligently and authoritatively on because as part of my job while I was working in the office of our unit, I was responsible for processing Family Care Plans for Soldiers. Male and female single parents as well as dual military parents scheduled to deploy are all required to have Family Care Plans for when they are deployed or go to the field for a period of time or even have to work overnight for duty. These plans have to be thoroughly verified and legally put in place with things such as letters of authorization for the care giver to approve the child's health care, automated stipends to the child care giver for the child's upkeep, authorizations to get on and off-post with the child, authorizations for PX and commissary privileges, etc. The child care giver has to sign papers stipulating that they are ready, willing and able to take care of the child. If the Single Soldier (male or female) is unable to get a plan in place, they are honorably discharged - it happens all the time and is not a huge deal resulting in missing a movement for deployment, incarceration or a sad sounding, but completely erroneous story in the paper making the Army look like heartless bastards. It seems to me in this case, the Soldier chose her mother as her child care giver - someone she knew was already overly taxed with other children and her health rather than finding a more appropriate person. The Soldier knew this, the grandmother knew this - long before the Soldier was to deploy though she of course says otherwise. Not knowing the Soldier but rather, the type of Soldier, I am guessing that she procrastinated knowing that she had inadequate plans for her child and figured she would get out of the deployment if she waited long enough that she couldn't make other plans (or was burying her head in the sand). Maybe she didn't want to get discharged because of the paycheck and benefits she gets and didn't want to have to get out and find a job, etc. The problem with leaving a single parent behind when the rest of the unit deploys is that as a Soldier in the Army, their job is to deploy when necessary. If they cannot do so due to child care issues, they can opt to be Honorably discharged. It is unfair to the other Soldiers that one Soldier stays back because they cannot find someone to watch their child and yet still gets paid to be a Soldier - everyone has families they want to stay with. The fault lies not only with the Soldier who was lax in her responsibility to her child by finding someone appropriate to take care of her child while deployed (remember, she could have gotten out of the Army when she got pregnant or when she was unable to find adequate child care upon notification of deployment) and she also shirked her responsibility to her unit by not showing up for movement. I don't feel sorry for her because there is no way she would have been deployed and forced to put her child in foster care or jailed if she had taken the proper steps (she would have been discharged but not deployed) in the proper order in enough time to do something to rectify the situation. Her chain of command should be also blamed for this because if they had not checked up on her Family Care Plan and ensured it was in place and adequate, they are partly to blame. If she had let them know it was inadequate and they told her she should put the child into Foster Care, she had ample avenues to go down to get discharged from the Army. She could have consulted JAG (Judge Advocate General) or IG (Inspector General) if her chain of command could not or would not help her. The last thing she should have done was just not show up for movement which is a major deal and can be prosecuted resulting in jail time regardless of her sad sounding story. The fact is that a woman, in the military, who is old enough to be a parent took no responsibility for her situation and took no steps to fix the situation when it went South and now she is in legal trouble and is blaming everyone but herself. I am a divorced mother of a 15 year-old boy. If my child lived with me full time, I would also have to have a Family Care Plan in place just like any other single parent in the Army. And when I deployed I would have to ensure it was in place and working properly and the person (if his father was not in the picture) was able to care for him the whole time. If I was unable to get a plan together, I would have been discharged. Simple as that. And BTW - people with children get paid more than single people in the Army - so yes, the military DOES pay for childcare, etc.


All this "She signed up for

All this "She signed up for the army"-shit....probably because she was hungry. Aside from the Fact this and all wars we've started since WWII were and are criminally illegal, she was lied to just as the entire country-and the world, have been. Just this pm a radio report said an army spokeman said "the army do NOT deploy single parents." Yeah right. Maybe he should ASK the army. ~John L.


As a current active duty

As a current active duty myself, I know that everyone is required to have a family care plan if they have dependents. The fact that she falsified hers, whether it was because she thought that she wouldn't be deployed or she failed to coordinate with the people she listed, the failing is on her part. She entered into a contract with the government and like it or not, she has no right to complain when she willingly breached that contract. No one forced her to join, and no one forced her to take the money and benefits for herself and her child that that contract entitles her to.


she is a soldier first,

she is a soldier first, family is second... as the old saying goes... in my time of service women would take the billets of men returning from active service forcing them an early return to theatre before they are ready... today's military is all volunteer so if you voluteered to serve then serve when your time in cue comes up... if you don't want the job then leave it for another one closer at home.


I've read comments here

I've read comments here about this mother knowing what she was getting into, she should have had an abortion, blame her for everything. The why she joined the Army is most likely due to there being no other jobs for her in her area. It had to be desperation. A woman can try her hardest & still "accidently" get pregnant. As for "where is the father"? comment! ha ha ha you idiot, he like so many other sperm doners skip out when responsibility of being a father comes along. Too many single mothers are ditched by the fathers of their babies. She could very well serve her military duty in the US, even at the nearest army base to her home. This war is ruining, maiming, killing too many people, families, countries, environments, economies, etc. It should stop now. Stopping the wars & closing Guantonamo is the reason Obama got elected in the first place! We all need to remind him of that thru our representatives. Our military people are not dispensable pawns but are being treated as such by our military. It's sinful. Whatever her job or MOS is she won't have her mind on her job if she's worried about her infant son in foster care. How safe is that for her or any others working with her?Of course the military doesn't care & are sending troops back 4 & 5 times, even those who have been certified unfit for duty! It's insane. Send the message to your congress persons, stop these wars now. They are unwinnable & the price is too high.


Join the army. Get great

Join the army. Get great salary and total care. Then beg off.


Also job security...

Also job security...


The Army is a Socialist org!

The Army is a Socialist org!


As a Canadian, I offer these

As a Canadian, I offer these thoughts with the understanding that my own government is as corrupt, and seemingly untouchable as yours. You are the ones who vote for the people who do these terrible things to your own citizens who are vulnerable and easily victimised. American military and foreign policy will not change until enough American people take back control of your country from the psychopaths, sociopaths, murderers, and greed-heads who are currently running riot in your legislative assemblies and senates. Until you unite and work to remove the carpet-baggers from office, your military will continue to feed your country's most defenseless populations into the meat-grinders of foreign wars. The Prime Minister of Canada is doing the same thing here, sending courageous young men and women overseas to die or be driven mad in the killing fields of Afghanistan. We are killing off our futures to satisfy the egos, greed and blood-lust of politicians elected by apathy and low voter turnout. Change can only come from us, to protect and support us. Good Luck, Marti.


19:28 "Don't you think it's

19:28 "Don't you think it's just a little ridiculous to expect the Army to now be responsible for running around and finding a nanny for her child? It's her kid, not theirs. It's her responsibility, not theirs. So, this woman is 0-2 she can't fulfill her job obligations and she can't take care of her kid. And again, these are HER problems not the military's." No, I DON'T think it's ridiculous, because I don't think it's ridiculous to expect employers to provide childcare or family leave benefits, and with due consideration to those who have their greater share. No, I DON'T think it's ridiculous because I think our men and women who SERVE this country deserve better. As for the second "It's disgusting," it was a misprint. As for the third (your own), same to you, buster, and YOUR implications.


I see everyone is saying

I see everyone is saying that she should have know she was going to deploy. I am a mother in the military and that is not the case here. She is not trying to go on the deployment. She has to make sure her child is left with someone trust worthy. We had an instance when I deployed to Iraq in 2004 where a soldier left her child with one of her family members and they killed him. Another service members family care plan person abused the child. That is more stress than the deployment itself. When that happens the Army wants to say we should have made a better choice. You can't win for loosing. She is trying to do the right thing. What about or soldiers that don't have children that are going AWOL to get out of deployment. They are not being confined, some still collect pay while AWOL. Sometimes you have to think what if it was you.


I see everyone is saying

I see everyone is saying that she should have know she was going to deploy. I am a mother in the military and that is not the case here. She is not trying to go on the deployment. She has to make sure her child is left with someone trust worthy. We had an instance when I deployed to Iraq in 2004 where a soldier left her child with one of her family members and they killed him. Another service members family care plan person abused the child. That is more stress than the deployment itself. When that happens the Army wants to say we should have made a better choice. You can't win for loosing. She is trying to do the right thing. What about or soldiers that don't have children that are going AWOL to get out of deployment. They are not being confined, some still collect pay while AWOL. Sometimes you have to think what if it was you.


You are an idiot to say that

You are an idiot to say that children shouldn't be raised in the military. Maybe you had a bad experience as a child in the military, but not everyone does. My husband is proudly serving this country. And to another person on here that was talking shit about army recruiters. They are not loony and whatever else you are saying. They are the ones that tell it like it is and get our soldiers and service men and women in our armed services that defend our nation. Now to the girl that is being court martialed. It's sad that she is getting into trouble, but everyone knows that when you enlist in the military you have to have a family plan in order so when you deploy you have your bases covered. I feel bad for this girl. I hope she gets discharged instead of being jailed for a year.



Um.....no she has a

Um.....no she has a contract, she broke it, do not collect 200.00 dollars.....She prolly had the kid just to get out anyway........



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